Friends or a Career :
We all in our life came across this thought. What to choose between friends and career? Is it ok to cheat friends if it benefits you in your career? Is it worth having friends if that costs our career? In this blog, I will try to answer all those questions.
Well, there must a reason why you got that doubt. I assume you might be in a place in life where you have to choose between a friend and a career.
I want you to tell you something before Concluding.
According to me, the most important thing in life is peace. You leading a "Happy" life is more important than anything. So if you gotta first identify what makes you happy.
Let's take an example for this :
Imagine you fulfill every typical teenager's dream. You have all the money you want. But you don't have friends to enjoy all that. You were all alone. Does that make you feel good?
Let's see the other side of it.
You have great friends in your life. You enjoy every moment with them and you just want to hang out with them always. But due to that, you didn't pay attention to your career. All your friends excel you in finance but you just stay the same guy for life. Does this make you feel good?
So it's all about your priorities. For some people, money means nothing compared to friends. They want their friends to be around and spend a regular normal life. But for some money is essential and there is no way for them to earn money if they stick around friends. Then they must leave their friends and have to choose career.
Things to keep in mind before making a decision :
1. What makes you happy :
You have to identify what makes you happy in life. Then you can make a choice easily.
2. Is there a way to avoid separating from your friends :
Personally for me, friends are important. I can't leave without friends. They are the one makes our life fun and enjoyable. So even if I have all the money to travel to outer space I won't be happy without my friends.
So look for every possible way to avoid this.
3. If you made good friends it doesn't matter :
Now imagine your friend got a good job but for that he has to leave you or have migrated to some other places. So what will you do? You want what's good for him. So you will let him take a good with a good intentions.
So just like you if you're friends are good then it doesn't matter.
Let's see the conclusion now :
In life, we have to make a harsh decision which we don't want to. But because we got no choice we have to do that. Like everyone says we must find a balance in our life. Ultimately no matter how much you think or how many blogs you read you are the one who has to make a decision. So just do what is good for you both.
I hope this helped you clear your doubt about this if not then you can contact me or leave a comment. Thank You very much for reading this.
Thank You and have a nice day.

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